Showing posts with label Indian. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Indian. Show all posts

Wednesday, December 12, 2012

Algorithm to Worship God! ;-)

I never usually visit the temple. Because I tend to look at other things rather than concentrate on the worship of God. Even when I have the darshan of God, I tend to notice only what he is wearing and how the priest is chanting mantras rather than feel him in my heart. God, it is so hard to concentrate in my prayers with all this crowd. I prefer to pray alone.

Its all so mechanical. Doing pranams, buying the archana token, doing pradakshinams(getting irritated with people moving slowly in the process). Thats why the word 'Algorithm' in the title.  Visiting the temple is a standard algorithm. Where is the question of Bhakthi in this process?

INPUT:      I, Enough Money, Full of worries, Temple.
OUTPUT:  I, little or no money, Peaceful mindset.

CAUTION:  Do not wear new chappals
                    Do not go during special occasions like Vaikunta Ekadasi or New Year unless you
                    want straight mokshaa.
                   Do not buy prasad from sellers especially if you have a weak constitution

PROCEDURE:

Step 1:  The hardest part. Make up mind to go to temple.

Step 2:  Clean up, dress neatly and modestly. Preferably Indian wear. Else you will spoil the other
            person's concentration.
 
Step 3:  Preferably don't take another person for company. Its always lovely to visit the temple alone.

Step 4:  Travel and reach temple.

Step 5:  Leave chappal/shoes outside at your own risk.

Step 6:  Buy materials for archana like tulsi, bananas, coconut etc. Very clever business people will do     the needful. Just pay the buck.

Step 7:  Silently enter the temple. Do not step on the nilapadi. You will attract unnecessary attention.

Step 8:  If there is a wash area and if its clean, wash feet and do not slip.

Step 9: Do pranams to Lord Ganesha, the beginning and end of all. Do > 4 pradakshinas if you          want something from him. If you do 108 then you really facing a serious situation. May God bless you.

Step 10: There are lot of people ready and waiting to irritate like gossiping maami's, bulldozer women who literally push to get a better darshan, over enthusiastic freaks chanting or singing loudly creating a raucous. Ignore them. Look at the idol and only the idol.

Step 11: Communicate with the priest to get work done. It is better to take a small book and read the      strotra silently rather than relying too much on the priest.

Step 12: Put the money on the thattu/plate, wait patiently for the deepardhanai. Apply kumkum, vibhuthi   on forehead, carry some on a packet and time to leave.

Step 13: Before leaving do namaskara at the main entrance, sit for a while in a shady place and then out    you go.

A temple is not a bad place to visit. It is very important to choose an appropriate time. Since it is a public place it tends to be very messy but one must learn to tolerate it. Nevertheless it does give you some amount of happiness, a collective consciousness-that all turn to the One and a strange peace of mind.

Some of my favorite temples are Anantha Padmanabhaswamy temple, Adyar, Karpaga Vinayagar temple Adyar, Maruntheeswarar temple-Thiruvanmiyur, Paarthasarathy temple-Triplicane, Irresistable Kapaleeshwarar temple-Mylapore, Nanganallur Anjaneyar temple, Madhava Perumal and Kesava Perumal temple near Mylapore, Breathtaking Prithyangara Devi temple, Chollinganallur, Massive Madurai Meenakshi temple, Kamakshi temple Kanchipuram, Powerful Chamundeswari temple, near Mysore. 

If you have any other names of must visit temples, add them on the comments below.

Tuesday, June 14, 2011

Salwaar Kameez- Clever Invention of India

People ask me: Which dress is your most favourite? I say jeans and T shirt. Then they ask: Which is the dress which is the most comfortable? I say Salwaar Kameez. Many women though they love jeans or saree cannot deny that salwaar is the most comfortable, decent Indian wear. It is the loose fitting dress which covers the entire body. The typical salwaar is a long top which comes just beyond the knees with slits on both sides and the Kameez is a loose pyjama like shaped uniquely with a ribbon or nada to adjust tightness around the hips. The dress comes with a dupatta which is a piece of cloth that hangs like a chain around the neck.

There are many variations. Some like their SK to be tight and figure hugging with a deep neck and back. But the loose fitting cotton with closed back, average neck is my personal favorite and ideal for summer heat. The dupatta works two ways. First it protects and covers the front portion and second the back too is well covered in case the salwaar material is too transparent.

I didn't much bother to trace back the origin of the dress. They say its Punjabi. Whatever it may be, it has become the most sought after dress by all Indian women. No India Fashion show is complete without the usual display of collection of SK. Colleges have made it a compulsory wear. Even the western wear jeans has been made Indian- jeans and kurta- very much like SK. SK materials as well as ready made dresses are available in plenty in all clothes showrooms. Because of the high demand they are turning out to be quite expensive. A good quality cotton salwaar material costs minimum Rs. 300/-.

SK offers a lot of free movement and space which is not found in the saree or sometimes even jeans. I personally don't like anything to be tight. It restricts my breathing. One can run, jump, fight, climb with the SK without being too self conscious. One can rightly say that the SK is one of the cleverest inventions of India which has brought about a sea change in women's attitude and also has contributed to women's empowerment. Now everyone even from those below poverty line and the remotest of villages has started embracing this dress. Long live SK! Long live womanhood!